I was born in Los Angeles, California, in 1956 to wonderful parents,
Donald and Charlotte Carlisle. I grew up in Santa Ana, California. At
the age of seven I began taking private guitar lessons after my father
had bought me a Montgomery Wards guitar on my seventh birthday. I was
not only taught to read and write music as well as play the guitar, but
eventually studied orchestration and arranging. From the beginning,
music has always been about passion to me. The reason I first started
playing guitar and singing has always been about that passion. Even at a
As a young man, the soul bug bit me. I fell head over
heels in love with the likes of Otis Redding, Wilson
Pickett, James Brown, Tower of Power,
Sly and the Family Stone, etc. While a piece of my heart will always be
there, I truly appreciate anything that's done authentically and with
I was introduced to Christian music in the early 70's
during the time of the "Jesus Movement" in southern
California. That wonderful move of God's hand was also the birth of what
we now know as "Contemporary Christian Music."
the age of sixteen, I joined with Erick Nelson to form the band, Good
News. I later joined the group, Psalm 150 where I met, for
the first time, the girl who would eventually be my wife. After the
recording of their second album, the majority of the members of Psalm
150 went on to tour with Andrae Crouch
as his band. At the same time, I ventured out as a session singer and
musical "gun for hire."
I began doing more and more recording session work as
a singer, in Los Angeles. Through this session work I was fortunate to
have a relationship with songwriters, Tom Kelly and Billy Steinberg who
wrote the songs "True Colors," "Like a Virgin," etc.,
performed by various artists throughout the 80's. It was during this
time that I really gained an education regarding the art of producing.
I had been playing at a place called Rosie's in L.A.,
when one night, in the middle of a show, I just had to leave the stage.
My spirit had boiled to the point that I just couldn't do it anymore.
Sure, I was making a living and doing my best with what I knew how to do
– to provide for my family – but in my heart, I had relegated
position of the God of my passion to that of a spectator. In the alley
behind Rosie's, I cried out, "God, I don't care where You lead me,
just get me out of here. I will wash cars with joy for You, if you say
so. I will do anything just to know that I am once again putting one
foot in front of the other in Your precious will again."
Within a week of that event, my dear friend and then
member of the band, Sweet Comfort Band, Randy Thomas and
songwriter, Sam Scott came to my home to tell me they were starting a
band. They had come to ask if I would consider being a part of it as
lead singer. The band was later named Allies and, by the Grace of
God, we were immediately signed to Light Records before we had even
finished our demo…truly a miracle. Allies was very much a
spiritual halfway house for me. We were a rag-tag group of guys who
banded together to make powerful music that gave Glory to God. I will be
forever grateful for the experience.
I vividly remember a concert venue in Southern
California in which the audience was absolutely packed to the rafters.
It was going to be a great concert. As we were backstage we could hear
the audience chanting the band's name in anticipation of what was to
come. Allies, at the time was implementing the whole military
We would even stop by army surplus stores all over the
country to pick up stuff for the stage...outfits, camouflage netting,
etc. We even transported our CDs and cassettes in ammo boxes. That
night, I was wearing camo fatigues, combat boots and a red gun belt. In
the midst of one our hottest songs, and as the crowd was in a frenzy,
for some reason I took it upon myself to do a
Prince – or the artist
formerly known as Prince – move. I jumped up, leapt down, and...split
my pants. I mean SPLIT AS FAR AS THE NORTH IS FROM THE SOUTH!! Our
drummer Jimmy was hysterical because he had a view that nobody else had.
Mid-song I had to sidestep off-stage where there was a man who said,
"I'm about your size; I can help you!" He came back with a
pair of purple maxi-bell bottomed corduroy Levi's that were about four
inches too short. I went back on-stage looking like a time-warped
Captain Kirk on steroids, and finished the concert. I still hear about
it to this day. "I was there" is the most common phrase I
hear. "Man, I was there. Remember the pants? I was there."
The band was touring mainly east of the Rocky
Mountains and yet we were originating out of Southern California, so it
made sense to eventually relocate to Nashville. At about the same time,
the song "Why'd You Come In Here Lookin' Like That" had been
picked up by Dolly Parton and went to the
number 1 position on the Billboard country charts. This really helped to
encourage me as a song writer in Nashville.
Allies ran its course in 1992. There was no
rift in the band, we just felt that it was time to put it to bed. Record
sales weren't what they once were, and it was just time.
first solo project was "Bob Carlisle" in 1993 followed
by "The Hope of a Man" in '94 – both on the Sparrow label.
Upon completion of these two albums, I decided to sign with Diadem
"Butterfly Kisses (Shades of Grace)"
was my first release
through Diadem. In case you didn't know already, a butterfly kiss
happens when the delicate lashes of your baby's eyes sweep across your
The song "Butterfly Kisses" was written for my daughter
Brooke. I was struck late one night with the reality that my baby girl
had grown up and that she would be leaving my home soon. The joy of
happy memories and the burden of missed opportunities collided in my
heart and the song just poured out. When I wrote it, I never expected it
to be recorded. I was content for it to be my private love letter to
Brooke. I am thrilled at its success, but it is strange to hear a song
written for your daughter being played on the radio. It is even stranger
to hear the song covered by another artist.
To know me is to understand that I am a man captured
by the Grace of God. My father modeled his faith to me in practical
terms: doing the Word without boasting it. He was an incredible man, and
although he passed away a several years ago, he was the greatest
spiritual influence I've ever known.
My first calling from God is not to be a singer, but
rather to be Jacque's husband and a faithful father to Brooke and Evan.
To go out and travel around the world and sing for people is a wonderful
blessing. I'm humbled to be able to do it, but it's a perk. If I'm not
taking care of business here at home, then I have no business touring
I want to sing to the couples who are staring a
30-year mortgage in the face. When you hear my songs, I want you to know
that the man who is singing has been driven to his knees by many of the
same overwhelming stresses and strains that you are experiencing. I want
you to allow your heart to break for your wives, husbands and children.
Most importantly, I want you to know that there is Hope. His name is Jesus.
From hugs to butterfly kisses ... pony rides to
wedding days, Bob Carlisle has touched the hearts of America with
his song, "Butterfly Kisses." Through television, radio and
concerts, this powerful, number one song has quickly climbed the charts
and exploded into people's daily lives.
Notable songs include -- .
- Butterfly Kisses
- Living Water
- On My Way to Paradise
- You Must Have Been an Angel
- Getting Stronger
- Father's Love
- Teach Me How
- Mighty Love
- In the Hands of Jesus
- Giving You the Rest of My Life
Bob Carlisle may be available for your next special event!
.Praise & Worship.
..90s, ..00s, ..10s
Born: ..in California
..in Los Angeles
Sep 29, 1956
Raised: ..in California
..in Santa Ana
Based: ..in Nevada